Trečias žmogus
2008-08-12Čia tokia savoka. Kai būni nuolat dviese ir atsiranda trečias. Toks žmogus atsirasti gali bet kada. Dviese būnant mėnesį, pusmetį, kelis metus, dešimtmetį… Dažnai trečias žmogus tampa antru. O senasis “dviese” nustoja egzistuoti.
Sako, kad dažnai tas trečias būna kaltas dėl išsiskyrimo. Kad jis sugadina ilgalaikius tvirtus santykius, kad daro spaudimą. Netiesa. Nes trečias žmogus neatsiras, jei santykiai yra tokie, kokių reikia. Jei jie ilgainiui ima nusibosti, nuvilti, erzinti ar liūdinti, atsiveria visi vartai trečiam žmogui. Jis gali tik šiek tiek paspartinti išsiskyrimą, palengvinti sunkų apsisprendimą. Nereikia kaltinti trečio žmogaus. Nes dažnai jis viską padaro net nežinodamas. Tai tik vieno iš dviejų apsisprendimas.
Ir aš kažkada turėjau trečią žmogų. Paauglystėje. Bet nerimta tai buvo. Ir pati esu buvusi trečia. Net du kartus. Tik pirmą kartą sužinojusi pasijutau labai nemaloniai ir pasiskubinau viską užbaigti, o antrą kartą nieko nesiekiau ir neplanavau. O išėjo va kaip – iki dabar kartu. Bet kadaise sulaukiau prisipažinimo, kad ten daug kas jau buvo blogai, todėl aš tik paspartinau baigtį. Ir tapau nauja pradžia.
Gal daug kam trečias žmogus yra nauja pradžia. Ir nereikia to gėdytis. Velniop tos apkalbos, kad čia “tas trečias koją pakišo…”. Juk apsisprendimas priklauso tik nuo mūsų. Aplinkui toks keistas permainų metas: vieni draugai tuokiasi, kiti skiriasi, dar kiti išsiskyrę taikosi. O aš džiaugiuosi, kad mums dviese labai gera. Ir trečių horizonte nesimato.
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Salomėja
2008-08-12 21:08Kokios temos pastaruoju metu vyrauja:) Lyg ne vasara būtų :P
Salomėja
2008-08-12 21:09P.S. Aš čia turiu omenyje visus, ne Tavo blogo temas :)
scania
2008-08-12 21:17Jausmų srityje fizika neveikia – fizikoje būtent trikampis yra stipriausia figūra… :) Su žmonėmis visada jokių dėsnių, kaskart vis kitaip :D
Dina
2008-08-12 22:48Ačiū, Laura. Kažkaip.. teisingai tu.
shiny
2008-08-13 0:19tai va kad jei nelemta, tai ir be trecio viskas pasibaigtu anksciau ar veliau (: cia tik kaip katalizatorius neisvengiamam dalykui
bet siaip idomiai tu cia surasei. niekad nebuvau taip apibendrinus ir supratus..
Aistė
2008-08-13 16:50Žinai, bet tas “trečias” kartais gali būti ir geriausia draugė. Ar net kelios draugės, tuo labiau, jei jos yra laisvos…
Jio, na ir temelės :/
Evil
2008-08-13 23:05Trečio aišku kaltini negalima, aš tai kaltinu antrą ir, kad neišsiskyrė, o žaidė ir melavo. Nors tada galima ir trečią kaltinti, kuris žinodamas pasirašė tokiem žaidimam :) Aš dabar buvau nesenai trečias, bet pasakiau, kad bunu antras (aka pirmas) arba nebunu. :) Va tokie treti yra pateisinami, kuomet baigiami buvę ryšiai.
Jaunasis kolega
2008-08-14 14:54Aiste, tai kaip čia gaunasi? Negalime turėti nei draugių nei draugų? Dažnai darau didelę nuodemę, kad pradedų įtartinai spoksoti į draugų drauges / žmonas :). Bet visą tai saldžialiežuviavimu ir baigiasi. Aišku, nenorėčiau būti nesuprastu ir švepluojančiu. Jeigu kažkuris nueina “į kairę” tai jųdviejų problema. Tu tik aplinka.
Tio
2008-08-14 23:47Ach… tai visgi aplinka nekalta… :)
Jaunasis kolega
2008-08-15 13:07Bingo! :)))))
Paksas melavo
Jolanta
2008-08-15 17:27Jei jausmai tvirti, tai nei trečias ,nei dešimtas neišprovokuos. Bet yra tokių “patologinių” veikėjų, kurie kažkodėl ant kiekvieno kampo paslysta. Tada , žinoma, ir aplinka kalta,supratimo trūkumas ,nelaiminga vaikystė ir t.t.
Evil
2008-08-15 19:21Ačiū, Jolanta. Kažkaip.. teisingai tu. :))
Emi
2011-02-08 2:26Manau kiekvienas turime pradeti nuo saves, nekaltine kitu. Iskilus krizei santykiuose pagalvoti kas ne taip, ir ka pirmiausia As darau netaip kad jauciuosi nelaimingas kai pries tai, ko man truksta, ko negaunu, ka jauciu ir ko nejauciu. Tada daryti kazkokius pasikeitimus, leisti pasikeisti antrajai pusei, bandyti iziebti aistra. Jei tai beviltiska, tada tas trecias matyt nebereikalo atsiraso tavo gyvenime, ir laikas buti laimingam su kitu zmogum ir duoti laisve rasti laime savo buvusiam..:)
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